Your Values, Your People: How to Attract the Right Relationships
We all want those ride-or-die friendships, the kind of love that feels like home, and a community that just gets us. But how do you find your people—the ones who actually align with your energy, your ambitions, and, most importantly, your values?
Why Values Matter in Relationships
Imagine dating someone who hates travel, and all you want to do is explore the world. Or trying to be besties with someone who thrives on drama while you crave peace. Sound exhausting? That’s what happens when values don’t match up.
People like Glennon Doyle, Jay Shetty, and Esther Perel talk endlessly about how shared values are the backbone of meaningful relationships. It’s not about agreeing on everything—it’s about being aligned on what truly matters.
Finding Your People
Be Unapologetically You – Stop morphing to fit in. When you own your values, the right people naturally show up.
Set Clear Boundaries – If someone repeatedly disrespects your values, it’s time to re-evaluate their place in your life.
Seek Out Like-Minded Communities – Whether it’s a book club, a mastermind group, or a yoga retreat—go where your people are!
When to Let Go
Sometimes, no matter how much history you have with someone, if your values no longer align, the relationship will start to feel forced. And that’s okay. Growth often means outgrowing people, and that’s a natural part of life.
A Love Story (With Yourself)
Ultimately, the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself. When you honor your values, you stop settling for less. You attract better friendships, stronger partnerships, and a deeper sense of belonging—because you’re finally living as you.
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